hi everyone. i shall update details of my birthday cum farawell party on 14th jun 08 soon. this post will be a tribute to my 4th aunt's husband, who passed away on Friday, 13th Jun 08.
i just came home from malaysia after attending the funeral which was held for the past few days. after the party on sat, my family rushed back malaysia on sun to attend the wake.
upon our arrival at my grandparents place, all of my uncles and aunts huv returned back and all felt stunned by the sudden death of my uncle. he was playin a game of badminton in which after he took a break, he collapsed and passed away.
it was a pity as no one around was able to perform mouth to mouth resusitation or emergency rescue. everyone thought he merely fainted. he's only 44 yrs old this year. the medical facilities were of no help either. the medics were useless too. worse.. when they reached the hospital, NO DOCTORS WERE PRESENT!!! wat kinda rubbish is tt?! a big hospital operating wif no doctors just becus it was a friday.. :p
it's his fate la.. but i really ache for my aunt and my cousin. she's so young and my cousin is just 3 yrs old. she doesn understands wat's gg on and tt her dad is not around for her anymore. her birthday is on the 30th jun and her dad had already prepared to celebrate for her. the family of 3 was supposed to travel to genting for a short trip on monday. but, my uncle could not make it till tt day.. he has also asked his niece to prepare a present for my cousin, a soccer ball..
seeing how my aunt hold on to herself really aches my heart and seeing my cousin makes me wanna cry out and hold them tight, to provide support and comfort. it was so saddening to see my aunt collapse when it was time for the burial. she wasn allowed to send him off for burial..
when my uncle was around, he was generous to everyone and had the support of many.. he has lived life to the fullest, huving enjoyed all the best things in the world and helpin whoever needed help. my cousin was born a princess with many caring for her and doting her. after this sudden intrusion, i doubt she'll be able to carry on her life as a princess.. she'll still be one, in all our hearts but in reality, she'll huv to learn to stand and live by without the dad who's ever willing for her to slap him all over the face..
in life, we never know what will happen and what would happen.. we'll nvr be able to predict what's gg to happen and it's very necessary for us to cherish watever we huv and whomever is wif us. im not sure wat to go on anymore but ask for everyone to keep my aunt, my cousin and my uncle in their prayers.. may my aunt and cousin huv the strength and courage to move on wif life and tt my uncle may rest in peace and watched over them. thank you.
my cousin at the funeral...
shots taken durin chinese new yr this year..
she doesn noe anything except her daddy's sleeping..
~What will happen when she realise her sleeping daddy is no longer sleeping in front of her and no longer waking up..~
i just came home from malaysia after attending the funeral which was held for the past few days. after the party on sat, my family rushed back malaysia on sun to attend the wake.
upon our arrival at my grandparents place, all of my uncles and aunts huv returned back and all felt stunned by the sudden death of my uncle. he was playin a game of badminton in which after he took a break, he collapsed and passed away.
it was a pity as no one around was able to perform mouth to mouth resusitation or emergency rescue. everyone thought he merely fainted. he's only 44 yrs old this year. the medical facilities were of no help either. the medics were useless too. worse.. when they reached the hospital, NO DOCTORS WERE PRESENT!!! wat kinda rubbish is tt?! a big hospital operating wif no doctors just becus it was a friday.. :p
it's his fate la.. but i really ache for my aunt and my cousin. she's so young and my cousin is just 3 yrs old. she doesn understands wat's gg on and tt her dad is not around for her anymore. her birthday is on the 30th jun and her dad had already prepared to celebrate for her. the family of 3 was supposed to travel to genting for a short trip on monday. but, my uncle could not make it till tt day.. he has also asked his niece to prepare a present for my cousin, a soccer ball..
seeing how my aunt hold on to herself really aches my heart and seeing my cousin makes me wanna cry out and hold them tight, to provide support and comfort. it was so saddening to see my aunt collapse when it was time for the burial. she wasn allowed to send him off for burial..
when my uncle was around, he was generous to everyone and had the support of many.. he has lived life to the fullest, huving enjoyed all the best things in the world and helpin whoever needed help. my cousin was born a princess with many caring for her and doting her. after this sudden intrusion, i doubt she'll be able to carry on her life as a princess.. she'll still be one, in all our hearts but in reality, she'll huv to learn to stand and live by without the dad who's ever willing for her to slap him all over the face..
in life, we never know what will happen and what would happen.. we'll nvr be able to predict what's gg to happen and it's very necessary for us to cherish watever we huv and whomever is wif us. im not sure wat to go on anymore but ask for everyone to keep my aunt, my cousin and my uncle in their prayers.. may my aunt and cousin huv the strength and courage to move on wif life and tt my uncle may rest in peace and watched over them. thank you.
my cousin at the funeral...
shots taken durin chinese new yr this year..
she doesn noe anything except her daddy's sleeping..
~What will happen when she realise her sleeping daddy is no longer sleeping in front of her and no longer waking up..~
posted by de3pblusky @ 12:08 AM
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