MY BROTHER.

This is an early post for my dear little brother for his birthday.

On 14th june 1991, i was no longer the only child. My little brother crept into my life and splashed colours onto the picture.

Being the youngest, everyone would usually shower him with lots of love and care. They did. However, when i went into the entertainment industry, the limelight was on me. At that time, my brother was only 2 yrs old. Being at this crucial age, he was mostly taken care of by the maid or under the care of my grandparents. He was so innocent and pure that he doesn't mind my parents giving the attention to me. Definitely, my parents tried to make up to him and he would be so proud to tell everyone that i was his sister, the one who sings and acts.

He will always ask for extras of everything people gave him so that he could share with me. Sweet right.. at such tender age.

I on the other hand, feel guilty that i had taken granted for the things i had.

We would often have shoe washing session together and role play games. Birthday celebrations are always held together as mine is on the 20th june. Quarrels are inevitable and my parents would step in and teach us the values of everything. Being immature at young age, we would often fight and create nuisance out of small unimportant things. Even now, such things are still happening... Not that we're not mature.. but it adds fun and communication into our lives.

Now as we're older, i would hope and want to give the best for him. He would always be around when i need him to help me with IT stuff. I would bother him with my bicycle problems too. haha. even though he'll usually complain this and that, he'll still help me with everything in the end. My usual lunch partner.. we would often go out for meals but he'll always ask me not to be so close to him or people would think he has a bad taste for women.. :p

Ever since i started working, this fellow would try his ways to get me pay for his stuff.. always trying to get money out of me... well.. occasionally is fine.. don't go overboard.. hee. If i'm out too late, he would call and ask me home b4 i get scoldings and would cycle his and my bike out so that i need not walk home.

I'm very happy that he shared stories of his life too. i was surprised that he talked to me about it :) i remembered missing him so much when i went for tour in japan while he was in australia.

Even though he's still quite immature at times, i know he's still kind at heart and a very sweet guy. just that his ego would take over him sometimes. maybe i let him get his ways too much and well.. he's the one taking granted of it. haha.

for those out there with siblings, always remind yourself that they are the people you can be very close with and they will be there when you need them.. especially when your parents and guardians might leave you one day due to old age.. nothing beats having a good relationship with your siblings. Even though i'll always complain about him, he'll still remain as a nice little brother of mine in my heart.

i will not be around to celebrate with him at this special day. however, i will miss him and wish him a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY! ALVIN TAY!!!!


~say happy birthday to him on 14th june ok!~